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mrtjkool100730 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
Relationships and people are more important than work. If you spend your whole life isolating yourself from others by working to achieive something, when you finally get there you will have no one to share it with. Look for a partner or family first, and then you can journey through life WITH them, whether ending up successful or not. Things must be sacrificed for happiness.
litnight (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
Just like some of your patients I spend a lot of my time engaging in self destructive thoughts. I don't have family, friends or a mate. So I find myself doing it quite a bit.Even when I have had all of the above, they weren't ever good for me. They weren't supportive. So even while I had them I engaged in self destructive thoughts because they made me feel bad for being me.Even though I want to be close to others, it's better this way. I don't have so many voices telling me I'm wrong.
gothickiss86 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
I have been through some horrible relationships and finally I sat down and asked myself what do I really need, not want and now I have someone that truly shares my life, instead of ingratiating me into their life.
jtmoneyky (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
I've lost 2 of my best friends and an intimate relationship shortly after, and my small family seems to be getting more separated. What should I do?
kryzdion (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
howard y. lee and the light of life energy has changed my life
cheaphardwarez (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
A person with many friends comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. Keep you hopes and you pants up people and don't define your self by your relationships :PWork on being the kind of friend you want to have. The rest will work its self out.
BlindDogFulton (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
Yes, life sucks. But it's how we handle it that counts. Being a millennium teen, straight out of the good side of hummingbird lane, I have no leg to stand on when I say that, but I say it anyway. This is somewhat more for adults, but hey, words of wisdom can be from any source. I eventually concluded what you said. People suck, (most of them), and I want to have nothing to do with them. I'm only worried about how much longer I can get away with that.
shaneanu (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
I'm exactly the same, very dissapointed most of the time and going strong without anyone else :) Being considerate of others makes you end up being taken as a fool and stomped on. When I realize I'm getting that, I'm so pissed already I end up being too agressive. I'm living in almost complete isolation for a year now and altough I try to make new friends, I keep being pushed back by their egoistic attitude. Used to think it's me but now I just think the world is one big asshole :)
WolfDOuka (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
I have a boyfriend and we have been together for a year and a month, we love each other but one thing is, he lives far away...I feel longing to meet him, there is a chance I'll be able to meet him next March Break, but if I cant go to where he is...I feel like I'll go crazy...I am in Canada and he is in Nevada, USA....I want to feel his warm and loving embrace...and feel his kisses of love...that hope of seeing him is keeping me sane..but if I can't see him...I'll probably go insane.
twinter20 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)
Being able to make a contribution in life is the highest priority for me, above everything else. For the past years I have gradually isolated myself in an attempt to get ahead in work, which only resulted in major increasing depression. The ideal situation for me would be to find a partner that would understand because she has the same priority above me, just as I would above her. I believe having intimacy is essential to health, but it is not enough for me if I can't do my life's work. |
